Are You Too Flexible?
Are you too flexible? Are you willing to accommodate requests for others even if that means saying no to yourself more than you want? It’s certainly ok to put other’s needs before our own if we are doing it consciously and, if we are not doing it so frequently that we lose who we are. Strong boundaries prevent us from being too flexible. They foster a sense of self that, although moved by the breeze, stands strong when the hurricanes of life appear.
Too flexible?
That’s fixable.
Make the choice
Use your voice,
And your actions,
In that fraction
Of a second
That you
Are being charmed.
There’s no harm
In NO.